Give Me Sugar!

Trixie's blog of sugary wishes. Provided to torment and entice the best of sugar daddies!

Friday, April 30, 2010

Exciting Redesign!

This blog will be moving to a slightly different address as soon as I get my redesign done of GiveMeSugar.com, so check there and signup for my newsletter so you can find out when it goes live!

You'll be able to find the new blog from the GiveMeSugar.com homepage when I get it all magically developed.

Yes, it may be months away, but you never know . . . I could finally get to my pet project sooner than that so don't despair!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Give Me Sugar Promo

My birthday present to myself is to work on GiveMeSugar.com or at LEAST get my phone lines up and running. This is the promo I put together.

Note: I made the mistake of recording it on my webcam so the sound and video aren't as high quality as I'd like. But who cares? Just give me sugar! Mwahahaha Shiny Blonde Girl Power!!

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Monday, December 07, 2009

Carrie Underwood

Just watched a little of Carrie Underwood's Christmas special. Until seeing this I felt pretty ambiguous about her, but after seeing her bratty, manipulative, eyes-on-the-prize performance I'm a little more sold on her.

She answered the question of "how do you get to the top" with little skits that were supposed to be flashbacks of how she won American Idol, starting with a shot of her in her dressing room with her big fake eyelashes and curlers in her hair STUFFING FAT STACKS OF MONEY INTO ENVELOPES to bribe Simon and Paula with a sly smirk on her face. I like to imagine that some Sugar Daddy she had wrapped around her finger brought her a briefcase full of the stuff specifically for that purpose, with plenty leftover for her to keep and a nice diamond-encrusted good luck charm to boot.

The other sequences were similar, with her stopping at nothing to get what she wanted (psyching out Bice, dognapping Ryan's pet), and the kicker for me was her sweet, smiling expression barely concealing a bratty one swapped out back and forth with her mean, conniving brutal blonde "DON'T YOU DARE DENY ME" expression. She epitomized the whole sugar baby thing.

I'll refrain from commenting on the commercial where she curls up in a stall full of hay and sings to a horse, which I think is special for a different set of reasons.

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Monday, November 02, 2009

Sugar Daddy Ken Doll?

Described as the "Barbie Palm Beach Sugar Daddy Ken Doll" I'm not sure if he's Barbie's gay uncle or if he really bought that skirt for her and plans to rub the lotion on her . . . if she'll let him . . . after he walks her foofy lap dog:

Sugar Daddy Ken Doll

There should be a big fat wallet accessory! Oh wait a second, maybe what I thought was a skirt is actually a pair of shorts for him. Apparently he *is* Barbie's gay uncle and all that sugar daddying is going to go to a boy . . .

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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Nature's Credit Card

Sugar daddy types and those who feel compelled to pay for the special attention of women may be interested in some elements of this post I made about wanting to use nature's credit card to get what I want:

On the Golden Girls, Blanche referred to buying things with her body as "using nature's credit card". I wonder: what is the percentage of women who 1) want things and 2) immediately scan the room for men who can provide the means for procuring the things that they want. I imagine it's pretty high. It seems perfectly natural. And of that number, how many would use "nature's credit card" to seal the deal?

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Monday, February 02, 2009

Valentine & St. Paddy's Day Soxy Stuff

Wondering what to get me for Valentine's Day or my birthday on March 17th? Hosiery (socks, legwarmers, tights, thigh highs, etc.) is always perfect. In fact, SockDreams has pages of stuff THEMED to match Valentine's Day and St. Patrick's Day if you want to narrow down your choices just a bit.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Two Massages this Week

On Friday, I enjoyed my second massage that week. Professional, one-hour massages that I paid to enjoy in a spa. It seemed excessive -- two massages in the space of five days -- but it felt SO GOOD!

I hate to admit this, but I still feel guilty about "indulging" myself and my body through massage and other things people consider frivolous luxuries. I *know* I shouldn't feel guilty about it -- I DO NOT WANT TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT -- but I do. I feel like I need to defend myself and I worry that other people are judging me for treating myself to things that feel good. Here are some of the lines I feel like I always need to have at the ready, or things that I say whenever I mention to anyone (online or offline) that I've gotten (or I'm about to get) more massage:

I know I can't afford it but it's ten dollars off this week. * After all of the hours I spend sitting at the computer working, massage is a necessity to help prevent headaches; I can't afford to have more headaches! * I'm not using OUR money, I'm using extra money I earned from talking to my wanker on the phone. * I know, I'm so *lucky* to have time and money to get massage; some people don't even have three meals a day or work so many hours at three different jobs they never get to spoil themselves that way! * I know massage seems like a luxury, but really it's THERAPEUTIC, just like getting exercise or taking medicine when you're sick.
GiveMeSugar.com is therapeutic, too. It's a project I started for fun but also to confront & deal with these messages of shame that are burned into our brains saying we don't DESERVE to feel good, to possess beautiful things, to have time and stuff all to our individual selves.

When I tell people how much massage I'm getting (not nearly "enough" -- I don't think I could ever have TOO much massage), it's almost like I have to apologize for trying to feel good, as though somehow it's only acceptable to spend an hour having your body rubbed by someone you hired if you insist that you only did it because you feel really, REALLY bad. Like you're not allowed to take care of yourself unless you're totally sick.

I should not feel guilty about giving myself pleasure, or obtaining pleasure from other people who tell me it pleases them to provide it, or from paying someone money to give me pleasure so that I am free to enjoy it rather than obligated to reciprocate or try to guess what the person wants in return. I shouldn't feel the need to demonstrate to other people ways that I've denied myself, scrimped, saved, or worked a million hours to "earn" the right to feel good. I shouldn't feel the need to compare myself to those who are less fortunate than I am and protest that I recognize I'm no more worthy than them, I'm just blessed (and certainly don't DESERVE to be). I shouldn't be limited to only having the NECESSITIES in life. I shouldn't have to explain to people that what I do IS work or list a bunch of sacrifices I've made in order to qualify for pleasure. And neither should any other woman. I actually DETEST hearing women minimize their worth like that, apologizing for behaving in ways or experiencing things they supposedly don't have a RIGHT to do or have or feel.

It's not paranoia that makes me feel judged, it's the truth. Since the advent of the internet, women and especially teenage girls have been judged extremely harshly for "taking advantage" of sugar daddies. Girls with wishlists and webcams and paypal accounts and online donation/tip jars and mailboxes rented under pseudonyms have been criticized, lectured, demeaned, patronized, and blamed for all kinds of stupid things. For getting what they want "the easy way". As though what they provide in return is necessarily "easy" or as if there's something inherently wrong with gaining something without giving up more. As though you should refuse when someone offers to give you something. As usual, women are told we're at fault for benefiting from the weaknesses of men. For upsetting the balance where we're only supposed to be AFRAID of (or submit to) what men want to thrust upon us rather than exploiting it in calculated, unapologetic, gleeful ways according to our own rules. There are men who want to tip the balance back in our favor, too; people who see the system and society's standards as skewed and upside-down and want to restore us to our natural position in which we have what they want, and they pay to (try to) get it. While it may seem dysfunctional to some, it's just a response to and part of the greater dysfunction in the world.

The world growls at women who show pride or a sense of entitlement, "What, does she think she's SPECIAL or something?" "There are a million women just like her; what makes her think she's SPECIAL?" Women shouldn't have to apologize for recognizing that they are special and behaving accordingly. And yet, we do. *I* still do. So as an exercise in overcoming that, you may buy me massage and spa time ranging from thirty minutes to a whole day of indulgence:







You may also send cash -- MY FAVORITE -- or a gift certificate to my favorite spa straight to my snail-mailbox:
Trixie Fontaine
1240 W. Sims Way #7
P0rt T0wnsend, WA 98368
If I could buy the whole world a massage, I totally would! In the meantime, I'm going to enjoy as many massages as you will buy me. And practice not feeling guilty, instead just reveling in every pleasurable moment of having my favorite lesbian massage babe rub hot oil all over me!

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Friday, November 28, 2008

Cotton Candy

I just brightened up the front page of GiveMeSugar.com with a sweeter, less-foreboding look. Unfortunately I don't have time to do more with it, but it's a start.

I'd love to get the site functional in time to be lavished with gifts for Christmas, but I'm not sure that's a realistic goal or efficient use of my limited time. We'll see though . . .

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Put my Mouth on THIS!

I've experimented with a couple of cheap microphones for podcasting and recording sexy stories for members of my site, and neither of them have created sound worth celebrating. As a result, I've been less than enthused about recording my voice. Recently I got a tip from a friend regarding this relatively inexpensive (less than $100) microphone that's gotten rave reviews from podcasters and singers alike:

buy my sexy microphone

If you'd like to buy it for me, you can do so HERE from my top-twenty wishlist. You can purchase it either as a gift, or if you'd like I can set you up with a six month membership to my site in return. I would really appreciate it as I can't justify spending the money on it when we need new hard drives and other essentials, but at the same time I can't justify making recordings with shoddy equipment which means those who like hearing my voice are really missing out.

If you purchase it and want to get a membership in return, just email me with proof (or include a note when you buy it on Amazon with your email address) and I'll write back with your username and password.

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Buy Me a Laptop, Get a Lifetime Membership

Update 8/1/08: OFFER NO LONGER AVAILABLE THANKS TO DR. ASPIE!!

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I'm in dire need of a new laptop so I can chat and blog from bed (or maybe even from coffee shops, the way people seem to like to do). I can't justify buying one myself, though, not because it isn't important but because we have so many MORE important things to buy first.

This is actually a great opportunity for someone out there to purchase a lifetime membership to my site for about the same cost as a monthly membership; in effect, you could pay Dell around $22 every month if you buy it on their payment plan.

Here's the bare minimum of what I want:

laptop sugar daddy

Inspiron 1525
IntelĀ® PentiumĀ® Dual Core T2390 (1.86GHz/533Mhz FSB/1MB cache)
Memory:
2GB2 Shared Dual Channel DDR2 at 667MHz
Integrated 2.0M Pixel Webcam

Color: In order of preference: ruby red, espresso brown, flamingo pink, midnight blue

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If you're interested in juicing it up more, I'd say more memory for faster performance is at the top of my list. Don't bother getting any of the anti-virus programs they offer since they're all resource hogs; I will buy my own that I trust and works properly. Of course, you're welcome to select a more powerful and/or lighter machine: as long as it works, has the built-in webcam and is a pretty, shiny color I will be extremely happy. I will also be extremely thrilled if you buy me a Mac.

SHIP TO:
Trixie Fontaine
1240 W. Sims Way #7
P0rt Townsend, WA 98368

and email me with proof that you're the one who purchased it and I'll send you your username and password that will last FOREVER!

Again, this is a great deal for anyone who knows he (or she) wants to maintain a membership to my site (actually, you will get network to ALL our sites, including Delia's and AmberLily's) for a long time. Think of it as an alternative payment plan for membership rather than a gift from which you'd get nothing but my appreciation. ;) And you'll get to see me using it, all shiny and red (or brown or blue or pink) in bed with me or outside or in public as I happily clickity clack away on the keyboard. It's almost like a part of you would be seen in public with me! Trixie and the laptop you got her, out on the town . . .

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Saturday, February 09, 2008

Gift & Card Video

I'm not expecting many gifts for Valentine's Day, if any, but assuming I do get at least one of them, I will post a video here featuring me unwrapping/opening them and thanking the senders (in a way that protects their privacy, of course, by only referring to them by their first initial or name, if it is a common name, or their online nickname or other preferred way of being addressed).

My birthday is coming up in a month (March 17th) so I am going to make sure I let everyone know how special I want it to be and devote some time on cam and in chat specifically to my sugar daddies. More details to come!

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Victoria's Secret Wishlist

Many guys enjoy shopping for gifts at Victoria's Secret; it's familiar and erotically-charged for them. Despite some challenges with their wish list system, I've compiled a new one especially for you: CLICK HERE FOR MY WISHLIST!

There seems to be a limit to how many things you can put on your list which means I wasted a lot of time compiling a wide array of items that I then couldn't even share on my wishlist. Lame. But perhaps it's all for the best, as now I am limited to choosing to share jut a few that caught my eye. There are heels, sexy dresses, satin panties, and more.

FYI: these are just ideas; feel free to select anything you'd like to see me wearing and shoot for these sizes:

SHOES: 5
PANTIES: small or medium
BRAS: 34D or 34DD
TOPS: medium
DRESSES/PJ's: small or medium, size 6 or 8 ish (it sort of depends on the cut of the thing).

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Friday, February 08, 2008

Inexpensive Gifts I Love

I love inexpensive, thoughtful gifts. Even things other people would think of as trash because they're free or less than $2. I've made lists like this in the past, but it never hurts to repeat some of my favorite "cheap" things:

*bookmarks (even the free kinds, especially if they offer a window into a fan's location)

*socks (I don't know why ANYONE would complain about receiving socks as a gift!)

*paperback books
, even/especially used ones (I might not read all of them, but I enjoy getting them)

*garter belts (size medium); they're sexy, intimate, easy-to-fit, and I *always* can use more of them in as many colors as possible (vintage WELCOME; Fredericks always has a wonderful, colorful, large collection of modern garter belts -- oftentimes on sale, while other specialty sites are better for finding six-straps, classic & fetish styles, etc.)

Note: if you are inspired by the garter belts to buy a complete set, I like bras that are a 34DD (or 34D) and panties in a small or medium.

*rubber bouncy balls

*UNSCENTED candles

*writing implements

*music (burned mix cd's welcome)

*postcards/cards

*panties
(whenever you're in a department store and feel like making a sweep through the panty section you'll almost *always* find tantalizing bargains; it takes three minutes to buy a fistful of cheap panties and I can *always* use more of them in all different colors or styles; it's impossible to go wrong).

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The bottom line is that I do NOT equate low price with low class or poor taste; I am perfectly happy to receive stuff bought on sale, second-hand, or handed-down (when appropriate; I don't want second-hand sex toys or used hosiery, for example, from strangers).

A person will find their way into my thoughts more quickly by sending frequent small gifts than infrequent EXPENSIVE gifts. Of course, a person who send gifts both frequent AND expensive is the main contender, but that in no way makes the inexpensive gifts meaningless.

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